My boyfriend’s house only has a deposit of 200,000 yuan. Should I marry him?

 My boyfriend’s house only has a deposit of 200,000 yuan. Should I marry him?

I am a female, 25 years old this year, an undergraduate from a certain university. I’ve always been praised for being pretty since I was young. I think it’s okay. My family is located in rural Jiangsu. My family’s conditions are okay. Generally, my boyfriend is 25 and lives in Zhejiang. Wenzhou countryside. My male ticket and I have been talking about it for almost three years, and it was originally for marriage. I didn't know the financial conditions of his family before. Because he just graduated this year, his major is clinical medicine, and he just came out to find a job, and his starting salary is three or four thousand. We thought and talked for so long, thinking about putting marriage on the agenda, my mother met him before. , I told me two days ago that I would take him home for National Day next year to see him. I have not met his parents yet. Today he talked to his father about his plan to get married, and accidentally knew that his family only had a deposit of more than 200,000 yuan. And there is nothing like the house or car, I am really at a loss and confused what should I do? Last year, my aunt and daughter got married in the countryside. The degree of education is only the kind of vocational high school. I got married and bought a house with full money in Shanghai. I also have a car. The bride price came for 220,000 yuan. The wedding was held in the hotel. I saw it with my own eyes. Attended that sister's wedding. If I tell my mother truthfully that my boyfriend’s house only has a deposit of 200,000, I feel that my mother should disagree with us continuing to be together. Originally I thought that my boyfriend’s house conditions should be fine, and I’m not that kind of material girl. I think the most basic thing is that his family buys a house and pays the down payment. I can accompany him to repay the mortgage, and then hold the wedding and the betrothal. It's fine, but I didn't expect that there was only a deposit of 200,000, and even the down payment for the house would not be enough, let alone those who have to do weddings, without even the most basic protection. I was really uncomfortable. But my boyfriend said that his father said that even borrowing money would let us get married. I think it's not very reliable. It's not a little bit worse. I am really irritable and irritable now and don't know what to do. If I broke up with my boyfriend and couldn't let go of the relationship for almost three years, he would be fine with me, and I would be really conflicted. Can the majority of netizens give me some advice, how should I choose? If I want to wait for him, my youth can't be consumed. I am a very dedicated girl. Since I fell in love with him, I have not had a friend of the opposite sex. Help me think about it, I'm so difficult. . . .